If you've watched Grey's Anatomy--before this year--you know that Christina and Meredith are each other's "person". The person they would call to hide a body.
I'm very blessed because I can say my husband is my person.
I'm even more blessed because I have another person. I have two people. My heart sister. Lotus' godmother.
When she was in the hospital having my goddaughter and only family was allowed in her room she said without a second thought, "that's my sister." And I am. And she's mine.
The day before yesterday I started shopping for the seder. The one that will be on the anniversary of mom's death. I called my person and we talked on the phone about what I would make and what extras to have. I didn't have to tell her that I always did this with mom. You don't need to tell your person stuff like that.
Someday I'll write a post about how we met. It's kinda cool.
But I just wanted to write and say how damned lucky I am to have her in my life.
That is the most wonderful thing in the world - to have that person. You are so lucky! You just don't have to explain yourself or qualify what you say or do.
ReplyDeleteYou are lucky. My husband is not my person. He's my husband and I love him dearly, but my person is my BFF, my version of Cristina. And I feel lucky, too, because some people don't have a person, period.
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