On Monday my Uncle passed away.
He was 96 years old.
He had been married to my aunt for 73 of those years.
No one needs to tell me that he lived a good life. No one needs to tell me that it was time for him to go. But hearing the loss in my aunt's voice is horrible. Feeling the loss of knowing I won't be able to pick up the phone and hear his voice is also horrible. I'm trying to concentrate on the years I had him. On what he taught me. So here is my Thursday 13.
1) Laugh when you get annoyed.
Watching my aunt and uncle pack was funny as hell. She'd pack everything and he'd stand at the door of their bedroom and laugh at her. Then she'd yell at him in french. Then they would laugh and laugh.
2) There's no cure like travel.
Go away from your base for a while. A Staycation means work--it really does.
3) Music can solve any problem
4) If your emotional state is still bad, you need to listen to more music.
5) Education can solve the world's problems. We should have continuing education for adults--especially civil education.
6) Listening is better with everything. Music, people, problems
7) Don't ask, how can you help--find something and do it.
8) Hand written cards are in fashion. They will always be in fashion.
9) If you dress up for dinner you are honoring your dinner companions
10) Love takes time and work.
11) Once you've reached your 70th anniversary, you can sit silently and hold hands and everyone will just think you are cute.
12) You're not smarter at 95 than you were at 45--you've just seen a lot more and know to keep your mouth shut until asked.
13) Slip from one world into the next holding your beloved's hand.
On Monday night, my uncle passed away. My Aunt was holding his hand.